Susan B. Hagen
Relationship Recovery Facilitator
Break away from your conditioning.
Most people have insight into their patterns.
Few are able to change them.
This work is for those who are ready to go further.
There is a point where understanding your past no longer creates change.
You can see the patterns.
You can name where they began.
And still, in real moments—you find yourself pulled back into them.
This work is not about more insight.
It is about working at the level where those patterns were formed.
Depth-Oriented Relational Work
I offer a focused, process-driven approach for adults who want to understand and shift long- standing relational patterns.
My work is grounded in the Relationship Recovery Process (RRP) —a model centered on the impact of early family-of-origin experiences and how they continue to shape present-day life.
This is not solution-focused work.
It is a structured process that unfolds over time.
The Work
Work is offered through:
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Ongoing therapy groups
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Six-month structured groups
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Individual sessions
Groups are central.
They provide a setting where patterns emerge in real time—through interaction, observation, and reflection.
Over time, what was once automatic becomes visible.
Background
I have spent decades in psychotherapy settings and have worked extensively within the Relationship Recovery Process for over twenty years.
My training includes long-term work with Amanda Curtin, developer of RRP, where I participated in and later supported her group work over a period of seven years.
This experience continues to inform the structure and depth of my work.
This Work May Be a Fit If
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You recognize repeating patterns in your relationships that have not shifted
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You are less interested in advice and more interested in understanding
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You are willing to engage in a process that takes time
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You are able to look directly at your experience, without avoiding it
Important Information
This work is intended for personal growth, relational insight, and emotional awareness.
It is not psychotherapy or mental health treatment, and I do not provide diagnosis or clinical care.
If you are seeking treatment for a mental health condition, working with a licensed provider is recommended.
